Dave Sena is the founder of Bold Leading, a coach and consultant to executive directors at faith-based and compassion-based nonprofits. He's spent nearly 30 years in rescue mission leadership and fundraising, and has helped raise millions of dollars for compassion-based ministries along the way.
I was a young Air Force officer, brand new to the job, when I sat down at my desk one morning and opened my email.
That’s where I found out what nobody had briefed me on. Big projects. Tasks with my name already attached. Responsibilities I didn’t know were mine until someone else decided they were. I barely knew my boss — we’d hardly spoken. But half the base knew my name and my email address, and every one of them was capable of assigning me something before I’d finished my coffee.
Those were the early days of email, and I learned a hard lesson fast: I could triage my inbox and take control of my schedule, or I would let other people drive me and my time until there was nothing left for the big things.
Every nonprofit executive I coach is living some version of that same morning, on repeat. You’re showing up for your staff, managing grants, and prepping for the next board meeting — and somehow you’re also supposed to execute the strategic plan, raise money, update the latest report, and keep your joy intact.
That’s a lot to carry alone.
Here’s what I’ve learned to remind myself in those moments: triage the day with one filter. I call it 3DS.
Do it. Delegate it.
Dump it. Schedule it.
It won’t fix everything. But it will loosen the grip of decision fatigue and put you back in control of your day instead of just reacting to it.
Do the quick things now.
Delegate to the capable people around you.
Dump the distractions that don’t deserve your attention.
Schedule the big projects instead of carrying them around in your head.
Time management is a myth. Multitasking is a fairy tale.
You only have so much time, attention, and energy — and you can only really focus on one or two things at once. So be relentless about the filter, every single day.
Ephesians 5:15-16 puts it better than I can: “Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil.” Redeeming the time was never about squeezing more in.
Over the years I’ve learned to triage my email. I’ve learned to pray over what’s actually mine to carry. And I’ve learned to create space for the big things, instead of just reacting to whatever landed in my inbox last.
Do, Delegate, Dump, or Schedule — that’s how you carve out white space in your week for the work only you can do: strategy, culture, donors. The parts of the job that actually feel like joy again.
Here’s what triage looks like in my own inbox. When an email lands, I forward it one of two ways: to myself, with the task on my calendar, so I do it — or to someone else, with a snooze reminder, so I know to follow up. If it’s neither, I archive it. That’s the dump. Out of my way, but I can still find it if I need it.
Nonprofit leaders decide, every single day, what gets their attention. You create time for the big things the moment you decide to triage the small ones.
3DS, at a glance:
Do it — if it takes two minutes, do it now.
Delegate it — hand it to someone capable, with a follow-up reminder.
Dump it — archive it, don’t delete it. Out of sight, still findable.
Schedule it — if it’s big, it gets a slot on the calendar, not a corner of your head.
So here’s my question for you: what’s sitting in your inbox right now that you’ve been calling a “Do,” when it’s really been a “Delegate” all along?
It never stops coming. Triage it. Create the space. That’s the whole game.
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Dave Sena is the founder of Bold Leading and a nonprofit veteran with nearly thirty years of experience leading, coaching, and consulting faith-based organizations. If you’re stuck, burned out, or just need a clearer path forward — reach out. He’d love to offer prayer, honest feedback, and a roadmap through.
